[Mike Pearson]

Unfortunately I have been through 2 divorces. Both cost me quite a bit of money. The best thing you can do is to try to come to some sort of an agreement before you start the attorney thing. All the attorneys want is your money. If you fight each other it will cost both of you most everything you have. I was able to come to a fair and equitable setlement with both of my X's with little attorney input. There is no way you will come out of the divorce with all of your assets. You just need to decide which ones you really want and make a deal for them. This is a tough thing to get through but you will survive. Many of us have. Good Luck.